Friendships & Social Dynamics
You push people away. You also don't want to be alone.
You push people away, yet you don’t want to be alone. It’s a confusing cycle of wanting closeness while fearing the vulnerability that comes with it. Distance isn't a character flaw; it’s a survival strategy. Here is why we keep people at arm’s length even when we’re desperate to let them in.
May 10, 2026
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